D@nC!nG R@Bb!+

Usually, people will judge others based on their perceptions, their rules and their interpretations. What they are told to be or do, they will somehow apply that on others. If others are doing different kinda of things, then they see these others as weird, incorrect or misbehaved. You cant just simply ask others to follow whatever rules you see fit. Some of the rules not applicable here and there. These rules might be just fit to be apply in certain circumstances.

In a relationship, you are receiving and at the same time you're giving out things. It's a 2-way relationship(as there's not free lunch in this world). However, if someone ask more than you can give?

Others said when you start a relationship, it should be sweet and happy.
But, now you start to feel the exceptionally high expectations from the other party and hardly can taste the sweetness of the relationship...Do u think this is the price of it? Cant expect everyday it will be sweet....there's up and down in a relationship, right? (By the way....eat too much sweet can get diabetis...)
He did sometimes asking too much from her and she's still not ready to be totally committed to it. Give her some spaces to breath..Stop asking so much from her. TIme is needed to change or to adopt.Dun u agree that?

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Stop saying she's wasting ur time.
Sometimes some unintended words do really hurt.
Do u mean that if she's not willing to "change" on daily habits, you are jz gonna ask her leave for good?
Do u mean it's so wrong to start a relationship wif her as she's not the actual CANDIDATE you r looking for?
Do u mean starting a relationship wif her it's just the lousiest investment you have done in ur life?

Ya...Investment....you're not wrong. Education can be an investment. Relationship also counted as an investment. What do you think of that? Coz relationship need ppl to invest time, money, feelings?? Cant deny that anyhow. But do you need to keep reminding she's jz one of ur investment?

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Start to worry on sth that should worry only after marry....
Hei buddy, I'm still single here and not yet marry yet....Y cant I have some happy single life? Do I need to start worrying how much diapers my so-called future kids should be using? Should I start to worry what kind of damn food they r going to have? Oh please, give me a break....It's not time to worry so much on this kind of things....cant u be more patient or more considerate....to concentrate on current situation rather than those future long time away things? True...one should hav planning and preparations for the future...But dun u think it's too early to ask for these kinda of things?

看来今年的新年又是了无新意的吧~不是呆在家，看看电视节目，就是出外人挤人的。没有啥过新年的心情。
去年的新年，和一班朋友一起过。今年呢？朋友有情侣的都有节目了吧~没有情侣的，早已约好一起倒数。而我，就像不属于任何一个群队的，乖乖待在家里，对着八面墙发呆。不要问我为什么是八面墙~自己去想啦~

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祝大家新年快乐
有没有节目都好，
开开心心，
健健康康，
珍重
加油

有点喘不过气来的感觉。半夜，辗转睡不着。是不是已经过了睡眠时间，所以生理闹钟在闹脾气啦？还是，心里有着太多的担忧和忧虑。老是担心一些未来的问题，老是绕着一些有的没的问题。不觉得烦，不觉得杞人忧天吗？干啥为了这些问题，让自己那么忧心？

一个可以为了你不吃某种食物，而“威胁”要和你分手的人？
一个认为你读言情小说是浪费时间，说你没有长进的人？

他说“如果你还是不能改变你的习惯，我们不需要再浪费时间在一起....”
（开宗明义第一条，女朋友要如此如此......这样就不会浪费时间啦~）

对，我偏食是不好。可是，这话听在耳里，格外刺耳。两个人的生活习惯当然有所不同。
我不喜欢的东西，自小不喜欢的，要我一下子改变，或是勉强自己接受，何苦？
你爱吃，可以自己弄，我又不会阻止。
阅读言情小说不是什么罪大恶极的事情吧?有必要时时刻刻都阅读人生大道理的书吗？
真是不明白。

周末最好7或8点早上就起来，据说可以做些家务或阅报的。

要命，只有周末才有机会赖床，睡得迟一点。周末睡睡觉是正常不过的。
哎~为啥要那么早起来？阅报吗？我有一整天的时间。家务，不一定是周末才会做的吧？
你说吧，我周末睡觉碍着谁啦？如果还得那么早起来，我还不如去公司加班算了。

常常讨论这个没有结论的话题，徒增加我的烦恼。
如果我觉得需要改变，我自然会改。
不过，20几年的习惯，你当容易说改就该？
瞧，我又在啰嗦了。
是我自己要求得太多、太贪心了吧~
人，都是没有十全十美的。

p/s: 只是发泄一下心中不满。没有啥大事啦~

有谁是不能被取代的？常常看到报章里，无论是政治人物或是明星歌星的，都是可以被其他人所取代。后浪推前浪，不是吗？

如今，在公司里，能取代我的位置的人，不胜其数。所以，只要我能有一些特长或特别的能干，老板少了我不能活下去的时候，我才是独一无二的，无法被取代的。可是，你又怎能确保将来能代替你的人不会出现？只有不断的为自己增值，一直保持最佳状态，才不会被他人所淘汰。这样，会不会天天在提心吊胆的？这样会不会好累？

在男女之间，谁又能取代谁呢？只要是看起来像贤妻良母的和会煮饭的，都是你的选择吗？
看来，能取而代之的，有一箩那么多的的女性。符合这些条件的，有那么多人。是不是当你遇见条件更好的，你就舍旧取新的呢？还是，你只会不断埋怨、恨铁不成钢啊？（哈哈~恨铁不成钢不是用在这里吧∶p）

没有人喜欢自己能轻易地被别人取代。
不需要是唯一，只希望自己的存在是有特别的意义。

No body cant be replaced by others. Everyone can have someone else to substitute ur places, no matter you r a superstars or politicians. Sooner or later, they will be replaced by some younger people.

Currently, my position in the company...can be replaced by anyone...as long as he/she got brain, hands n legs. Unless, I'm so outstanding n brilliant. And, my boss cant live without me(which is quite impossible here). Somehow, the not-replaceable days wont b long as ppl keep improving their skills. Who knows, someday they can easily replace ur place in a finger snap. Only if you continuously upgrading urself, improving ownself etc...but then, wont tat be tiring? Wont you be worring all times....

Between one couple...do you think he/she can be replaced easily? If she jz happened to be matched ur requirements, would she be picked coz these reasons? If she jz someone from hundreds, who jz so coincidently matched your rules n regulations, will you jz take her as ur spouse/partner? Do you mean that you can simply find someone as long as their fulfil ur so-called requirements? Is tat meant that when you find someone who can fit ur requirements as compare to existing one, then you will turn to her without any hesitation? Or you will keep on complain on his/her weaknesses?

No one would like to be replaced by others.
I do not wish I am the one and only one, but just wish that I am someone special to you...not tat easy to be replaced by others.

Christmas jz over....
Now looking forward to New Year.....
Happy New Year...
Goodbye 2006
Welcome 2007

2007....a yr to visit ur house???
if u wan somebody to visit ur place, it's important tat you ensure ur place is safe to b visited, clean n tidy for ppl to visit. Preparation is surely crucial for one to expect her visitors. To be a good host, u need to let your guests feel like at home. If your toilets are as dirty as before, you will feel embarrassed when your guests want to use them. If your house's pipes are leaking water, what a mess it will be in ur house. Do you think ur guests will enjoy the time spending in ur house? Or do u really think they will mislook the leaking pipes?

Clean up the mess before one invites guests to their house, isnt it?
Make sure the guests are comfortable wif the environment and atmosphere.
Ensure all the lights and electrical applicances in ur house are functioning before letting them use.
Ensure ur kids(if any) are behaving decently when ur guests are around.....etc
All these are normal practices that a host will possibly do. So, after you r ready n have enough preparation,then only u start to give invitation to others to visit u...

Merry Christmas........
Towards the end of yr 2006......
Have you achieved what you want to achieve?
Have you enjoy and happy wif whatever u had during this yr?

Me? How much targets I hav met during 2006?
I hav grad from uni...n started my working life ever since....
Things change when you r no more a student. you cant fool around anymore. You accountable for what u did in the company. You should always b alerted while working blah blah blah...

2007 is around the corner....I wanna say...whether or not 2006 is a good year to me or you...we hav successfully gone through this yr. Which means we hav another yr of experiences in our life...Happy or Sad one, it doesnt matter. Coz you hav gone through it...overcome everything during this period.

Happy new year...n hope for a better yr.....

Flood Flood Flood.....
Johor unexpectedly is flooding with water now.
Almost the whole Segamat is filled wif water. Since 1970s, this is the worst disaster ever....
Raining for few days, without stop....n without merciness.....
Just wish the flood can be gone soon....
After the flood, all things cant be the same again, can they?
The people in the affected areas need to rebuild their areas. Or some need to clean up all the muds n dirts in their houses....Electrical equipments all gone....money are needed to re-purchase all these things....Money and time are needed to recover from this disaster.

从来没想到自己也有加班加到深夜的一天啊~至少，我以为在这间公司没有这种事情。可惜，我错了。老板加起班来，面不改色，可就让我这些小员工苦了脸，可悲地陪他一起加班开会的（算不算是舍命陪君子啊？？）。老板说今天这件事不搞清楚，大家焉用想离开会议室。

我就是坐在一旁，听他们讨论，最后越谈越激动。还好，最后大家冷静冷静了，把我吓得不知所措。从太阳高挂空中，直到夕阳西下，我还是坐在那里。想要回家，回不得啊~哎~一面听，一面心里在哀叹。冷气越吹越冷，眼皮越来越重。如果可以在那里睡觉，还不错嘛。

放我回家！放我回家~心里在呐喊。

一个小时又一个小时，肚子越来越饿。我的思绪老早已经不只到哪里神游去啦~想着美味的晚餐，想着清凉的水…….哎呀哎呀~我要回家！！！好饿好饿，哎~~~~~~~心情越来越差，越来越忧郁。讨厌！干啥把我困在这间房间，放我出去，放我回家啦~

老板原来不是铁人，也会肚子饿哦。很好，老板饿啦，拨电给pizza外卖。可是，当外卖送到时，我已经饿到不想吃了，只想快点回家。哎~可惜呀~还有好多议程还没讨论耶，换句话说，焉想回家啦。

10点左右，对方被轰炸到没力。可是，我家老大还是那么清醒，精力充沛的，看起来再谈上两三个小时不是问题。拜托，老大不累，小的已经归心似箭了耶。议程眼看要到最后一项，我以为就快完了吧。偏偏，结论又是一个长篇大论的。没错，是应该把话说清楚，以免有所误解的。终于，大家把话说清楚了，要跟进的，就跟进；要行动的，就该行动了。耶~~~可以回家了。

加班后记：非常佩服常常加班的朋友。我自问没有那个能力加班。一次加班已经差不多要了我的命。希望不会再有这么“美好”的加班回忆录了。常常加班的朋友，请接受我无限的崇拜吧~你们真是行啊！

当你要取舍，只能选择其中之一，你会做啥决定？会不会左右为难？
重看金枝欲孽，看着三宫六院妃嫔为了争夺天子的宠爱，不择手段。
人们为了权与利，可以将良心丢弃。
有时，你不去惹麻烦，麻烦也会自动送上门来。
不能置身事外，只因你在不知不觉中已经卷入是非圈子里。
这种情况在如今社会也是见惯不怪，只是争的不再是男人的宠爱，而是老板的青睐。


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有点无聊的周末。
睡睡觉，吃吃饭，
日子就这样过了。

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上回，说到买了一双相当满意的鞋子。。。。买鞋记

只可惜，此双鞋虚有其表。价廉物美吗？不对不对，穿了两个月左右，就不支阵亡啦~
哎呀~我看错了啦~它们根本过不了过渡期就完蛋啦~

白白浪费了我的时间和钱。。。。
不过，没有穿过，我又怎么知道它们经不起考验？

一分钱，一分货。