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有人说婚姻是爱情的坟墓...他和她，在这个月里第五十二次吵架。吵架的原因不外是他加班，而她不谅解，怀疑他有外遇。她很奢侈，他不能理解，也受不了她的无理取闹。吵吵嚷嚷的，终於有一次两人大打出手。一个不小心，她被他误杀了。这段失败的婚姻到底是谁的过错? 很多人现在抱着不婚主义，害怕有一天他们的爱情也会踏入坟墓了，想到都心寒了。

本来相爱的一对，因为生活压力、金钱压力之下，两人的爱，一点一点地被烦恼、厌恶取代了。讲钱伤感情嘛~何况是天天见面，天天相处的两个人。再来，相爱容易相处难，这句话不是没有理由的。不同生活习惯的两人要住在同一个屋檐底下，一些不为人知的坏习惯一一呈现在面前。天，他怎么那么邋遢，也不帮忙做家务。唉，她怎么那么慢啊，化妆要几小时的~好啦~开始为了一些小事吵，渐渐地不是小吵啦，是互相指责对骂，接下来是拼个你死我活的。所以，世界上有那么多的怨偶和情杀案。其实，两人在一起应该互相体谅和了解，不是吗? 既然，大家已经不合拍，与其相看两相厌，不如分开啊。至少两人不必撕破脸，连朋友也当不了。

近来的报章，从社会新闻里看到许多案件是因为当事人/受害者因感情纠纷而受伤和送命的。其实，爱与不爱只有一字之差。她不爱你了，你又何苦纠缠不清? 天涯何处无芳草啊? 如果不爱了，就放手，让自己好过，也让对方好过一点。想想，当初那么相爱的一对，竟然可以反目成敌人，不是很可怕吗? 有时，分手何尝不是一种结局和解脱，再见亦是朋友? 也许吧~

Rewatched Center Stage today
..... n I still think it's super nice....even I have watched it maybe 10 times???(or more than tat:P) The pain they need to go through b4 they can hav a perfect performance on stage. Sacrifices need to be made to make their techniques improved. Dancing should be a pleasure, not a torture.....they do enjoy their dance, eventually, even though they need to put in tones of efforts n hard work. Hrmmm...nothing just comes by itself. YOu need to work in order to get the fruits, right?

Last Sunday, I went to watch another dancing-related movie named Take THe Lead.....I love the dancing part throughout the movie. hehe~~you will feel like you just wanna join them n dance.....it's so hard to sit still there to watch them danced. haha~next time, Im gonna go n learn those dancing de:) (haha~~hope so!)

Different type of dancing they r having in these 2 movies....still, it's highly recommended...especially Center Stage:) (well.....for those who like to watch dancing, it's super nice..but will b quite boring for those who dont...)

连续剧的其中一幕...
女: 你别对我那么好，我会感动，进而喜欢上你...
男: 我正要你这么说丫~
(皆大欢喜的，拍拖去)

呵呵，如果是两情相悦的，自然就甜得腻人。可是，有没有想过若其中一方是流水无情的啊?那么，对白也许就要换啦~(我知道...我很煞风景，不够浪漫...)

女: 你别对我那么好，无论你怎么做我还是不会感动，不会喜欢你的。
男: (无言以对，天打雷劈的样子，无语问苍天)

或者是...

女: 你别对我那么好，我会感动，然后喜欢上你...
男: 啊！你千万不要误会啊~我对你只是朋友之间的关心...(马上誊清，然后以后避而不见)

我承认是我太无聊了，才会在这里研究着一些无聊的事情。
其实，剧情如何发展已经是定案。导演已经决定了男女主角的生死，爱与不爱。我在这里叫嚣也是没有用的啦~除非，我是那个导演~(哈哈~兔子说梦话，没见过吧?)

现实生活中，你能当自己的导演，主导着你的人生如何走，如何发展。我的戏里头已经有了许多配角啊，友情客串的...那么男主角呢??? 什么!!!被我吓得落跑了??? 不会吧~(兔子导演马上跳出来誊清...适当的人选已经拟定了，还在洽谈中啦，决不会是吓跑了[强调的语气])。 呵呵~下次见面，我再告诉你~我要继续研究研究人家的戏怎么拍下去...从中偷师，学几招来用用。

言情小说和世界杯，怎么看都扯不上关系吧?

看言情小说，很多时候男生都觉得这种没营养的书籍，一点都不值得花时间去看。言情小说，说来说去不就是爱啊~恨丫~这种事情嘛~婆婆妈妈的，看了还头痛呢。到最后，男女主角一定开心在一起，过着美满的生活吧~这，有什么好看的嘛~一点都不现实的...

看世界杯的，对一些女生来说，不过是几十个人追着一粒球，满场跑的，有什么好看。有~好看的，大概是球队里的球星吧~(这也是我偶尔会看看球赛的原因^^''最吸引我的不是他们的球技，而是球场上的帅哥...)看来看去，就是看他们如何奸诈，如何扮跌倒，如何争个你死我活的。好看吗?

很多时候，男生不能明白女生为啥会爱看言情小说，就如女生不能理解男生为啥爱看足球一样。看小说能看得又笑又哭的，这到底是为什么嘛~书里的人物只是作者笔下的人物，虚拟的，有必要为了他们掉泪，欣喜吗? 同样的，看足球可以看到日夜颠倒的，又是大喊又是捶心肝的，到底是为什么啊~还不是被一场球赛牵着情绪走吗? 所以，你有你的足球，我有我的小说。毋须以五十步笑百步的啦~大家的喜好不同，各有所好的，不是很好吗?

其实，生活里，有太多的苦闷和压力，偶然看看小说，看看球赛，笑笑和喊喊的，没有什么不好的丫~至少，有个很好的消遣管道，让自己过得开心一点。

现在，有蛮多的女生开始恋上足球(原因嘛~可能是觉得精彩?? 也有可能是和我的理由一样 - 帅哥嘛~)，就如一些男生也开始看一些文艺(或爱情)小说的 (从中学得一些追女生的技巧? 等我去问问一些看小说的男生再说:P)。我个人觉得爱看小说也好，爱看足球也好，只要没有碍找自己，那么就随便啦~

What the connection between romance novel & WOrld Cup?? Cant think of any relationship between these 2?

Well, for guys, usually they think that romance novels are useless, waste of time & money (waste time to read it & waste money to buy the book:P). It wont add value to their lives and wont benefit them in anyway.....coz this kind of novel talk of LOVE, HATE blah blah blah n some nonsense...Alright, there's nothing tat can attract them to read it....ONe more thing, the story often not realistic at all....what's the point of reading it???

As for gals...20++ppl chasing after one ball n running around the field....what's so nice about tat? aiyah....mayb the only thing attract gals are those handsome football players there...(for me, it's definitely the handsome guys in the game who make me sit n watch the match;)) how they play a fool of the audience? how they pretend to be HURTed by opponents?? how they bang into each other to take control of the ball?? what's so nice of these??

a guy dun understand y she can read tat stupid book till cry....and a gal cant understand y he so so so LOVE football more than anything else. Actually, it's personal choice to read book or watch a football match...there's nothing wrong about it. So, as long as wat others do wont interrupt my life...wont affect me....let it be then.....you can go on loving ur football n i can go on reading my novels:) Happily ever after ending? haha~

From My Fair Lady...
Song: On the Street Where You Live

When she mentioned how her aunt bit off the spoon,
She completely done me in.
And my heart went on a journey to the moon,
When she told about her father and the gin.
And I never saw a more enchanting farce
Than that moment when she shouted
"move your bloomin' "....
I have often walked down this street before;
But the pavement always stayed beneath my feet before.
All at once am I Several stories high.
Knowing I'm on the street where you live.
Are there lilac trees in the heart of town?
Can you hear a lark in any other part of town?
Does enchantment pour Out of ev'ry door?
No, it's just on the street where you live!
And oh! The towering feeling
Just to know somehow you are near.
The overpowering feeling
That any second you may suddenly appear!
People stop and stare. They don't bother me.
For there's no where else on earth that I would rather be.
Let the time go by, I won't care if I
Can be here on the street where you live.

At 1st, wanna upload this song here...but seems like unsuccessful:( nvm lar...if you wanna the song, tell me...i send to u through email;)
Specially dedicated to my senior....hehe~

非常炎热的下午，就算坐在风扇底下，还是感觉到汗水不断地冒出来，真是汗流浃背啊~
想不到，这里的夏天(其实，这里时时刻刻都是夏天啦)的确不是盖的勒~
唉~好想有架冷气在这里啊~谁家有多的冷气，给些来啊~
唉~汽油起价、电费起价、材米油盐酱醋样样齐齐起。(晕@@)
偏偏，就是工钱十年不变，永远赶不上通货膨胀的快~
好热的天气，真想"扑通" 跳进泳池里，解解热啊~
在这热气腾腾的天气里，有一杯冷冰冰的冰淇淋，一匙一匙地往口里送，多好啊~解暑啊~
可是，现在我还是坐在这里打着这篇东西，
唉~如果冰淇淋可以自己出现在我面前，多好啊~
(想得美啊~你以为冰淇淋会自动送上门让你吃啊???下楼去冰箱找还差不多~)

这是华文版的面试记...(chinese version - job interview)
1. 填表格
今天下午，到一家机构面试。一开始，当然是填表格啦~第一面，本身资料，还好。到了第二面时，不得了...要回答问题和写一篇短文啊~天啊，我有多久没有手写华文字啦，有多久没有写作文，还要是"我的自述" 之类的短文。它要求不多过300字来自我介绍。呜呜，有好多的字我一时间真的想不起怎么写啦~华文老师，我对不起你们~不断地在苦思要怎么才能把所有的题目完成。好不容易，我把所有的问题都写了些答案，很短很短的答案。不知道她看了心里在想什么，我在想这回应该是砸了吧~我看了那些答案，我自己都觉得答案太过简略、有点马虎。理不了那么多，我会填的，想到的就是这些啦~要多，都没有了。我想，最糟糕应该是我的短文吧~什么上有父母，下有弟妹，这些话我都写得出来，就不怕别人笑。笑啊，笑啊，我不在乎啊~我家的确是这个样子嘛~不然，你认为我应该怎么说呀? 我的短文的确是很短，才有三四句之多。恐怕小学生的自述都比我的还要长啊~

2. 面试啦~
好了，终於填完啦~该面试了。一位职员问了一些问题，我也一一答了。接着，我就问，如果要离职，是要多久的通知啊。她一脸怪异地望着我，说:"都还没上班，你已经在问离职的事啦?" 然后，她又说我这样会令公司很没有信心要请我，因为我好像没有什么心要长期在那里工作。我本来就是没有要做长期的嘛~(这句话，我还不敢说出口，怕她一脚拽我出门口)嗯~我答这是必须知道的嘛，免得将来有什么误会嘛~她还是不太相信的样子，说我这样说的确不利于求职啊~我只能笑笑而已。她告诉我许多工作范围啦~好多好多的工作啊~有点像打杂的，什么都得做噢~从报告到帐目，从额外活动到普通工作，真是有好多好多耶~没有想到有那么多的工作啊。心里想: 保持镇定，别马上落跑啊~这很难看耶~终於，面试完了。她说，大老板没有在，迟些他回来了，也许会在要求多一次面试。啊~还有面试啊?

3. 结论
我发现以我的才能，我未必能做完所有的工作啊~所有，这份工还是留给一些有才能，又能拼的青年才俊。我，是一个没有什么大材的人，无法胜任啊~有的人会认为我没志气，有的人认为我太挑剔，有的人认为我难侍候，不管，也管不了那么多。他人如何想，有那么重要吗? 如果，过得不开心，做得不开心，有这个必要坚持下去吗? 现在，我只是在找一份可以让自己开心的(暂时)工作，不行吗?我也需要一些私人时间，不是24/7都在工作。

Guess wat....I went for a job interview somewhere near my house...hrmm....Well, I think tat job wasnt wat I intended to do. At 1st, the staff required me to fill up a form...the front page is about biodata thingy...but the 2nd page really killed lots of my brain cells...It's been ages since I use a pen to write in Chinese....(usually, jz type on the keyboard) Tat time, only I realised, I cant think of some of the words...how to write them ar:P I was scratching my head to think of other substitute words. Then, the worst part was....they asked me to descibe myself in not more than 300 words. Gosh...It's been such a long time since I complete essay on MYSELF....aiyah~wat to write?? I jz simply wrote 3-4 sentences.....aiks~~I really dun know wat to write there@@

When I was interviewed by the staff there (a short n simple interview), I asked her how long notice should I give if i ever wanna resign....SHe looked at me in kinda weird way n said....Im the only one who asked such question....no ppl ever ask this Q b4 they come to work....haha~b4 you come to work, you already thinking of resign??? Hrmm....for me, I think I jz wanna know wat's the normal procedures tat company follow...so tat I wont hav misunderstanding with them in the future (is there a problem???). Then she said this will reduce my chance of being hire, coz the company will lost confident in me...(coz i might not have the intention to work long-term there) Hrmm....BUt then, I was NOT intended to work long term there...haha~tat's y im asking lar (this sentence of coz i din tell her...if not, straight away she'll say'thank u n u may leave now'^^lll...) Then she told me wat r the work procedures lar....wat to do ar....(wah...so many tasks need to be done??? Hrmm....like working everyday then...)

Actually this work is kinda like doing all those office-gal job or u can say it's the rojak works....you need to do reports, accounts, prepare bills, attend meeting, do minutes, purchase orders, etc...Hrm....I jz wanna find some jobs tat can use to kill time as well as earn some pocket money.....HOw come dun hav some jobs near to my house n offer such benefits to me??? I just wanna find PART TIME job...wat's so hard about tat??? PART TIME means work while im free n off while im not free??? Arrggg.....I hav tried not to b so choosy, so demanding...but then, if I dun like it, I wont b willingly to do it, wont happy doing it.....SO, wat for I force myself to accept tat since I got other choices? [well, other jobs may not be so near to my place:( ] Well...I take this interview as an experience b4 i face the real job interview in the future:P Of coz, tat time I wont b asking such "brave" question i.e. How long notice should I give b4 resigning.......

jz hope tat I wont screw-up wif my interviews (for permanent jobs) ar...haha~but for this moment, i jz wish no call for interview for another 6 months....haha~y??? DUn ask me y lar....if you dun know the reason, then let it b...if you know the reasons...haha~till after the 6th month, I will tell u the results...

Soon after the interview, I went to Jusco with my best friend...haha~~went to hav a cup of soothing sundae...yummy~~~~wat a pleasure in a HOT weather here.....haha~~Happy n satisfied~

Recently, dunno whether it's the weather fault or what....many ppl seems become sick....
Well, at home, my little bro got a fever....but now already become better:P
My lovely senior also becomes sick....hope she get well soon!!! hehe~then we can go out shopping n eat ;)
THen, to my friend(s) who r sick there, take care of urself ya~hehe~drink more water n hav enough rest ya~

Home again...it's so nice to be home~hehe~~This wkend went to KL to meet friends......
hrmmm....to my dear senior, though we cant meet up this time, well....next time:) Hope you get well pretty soon~how can let the virus attacked u so easily~mz fight back ya!!!
Then....to my dear friends....nice K-session we had...wahaha~~hope we can hav another session next time ya~(wait till i save some money 1st:P)

Walked through Lot10, Times Square n Sg wang..haha~~walked n walked, window shopping throughout these days.....thanks to the fellows who accompanied me to walk aimlessly at these few places......;)
While shopping @ Lot10, Isetan is having sales now...hehe~~~THought of buying one shirt....but when I think of my overload wardrobe....better dun buy~~haha~if not, really dunno where to keep my dress de...hehe~save money ar......haha~aiks~~so, at the end......jz gotta say byebye to tat shirt (anyhow....not really keen to buy tat shirt....;P) 1st time in history, go to Sg wang/Lot10 n din buy anything....gosh~so hard to believe tat....mayb dun hav anything wanna buy in particular n wanna take care of my purse.....it's slim enough..:P
these 2 days...ate a lot n drink lots of drinks...haha~~when tired, will find a place to sit down, chat n drink sth....I guess this is how you call enjoy ur life???

Anyhow....a nice KL trip, again~ Nice people, nice food, nice drinks.....n nice stay~ haha~~syn, thanks for ur room~haha~