Wednesday, 31 May 2006

有点混乱的心情 messy

假期的第二天,开始有点无所事事地在家里。上网,也不知该做些什么;睡觉,也不能一直睡下去丫~出外逛,外面的太阳好猛。玩短讯,电话到期了,也没钱啦~

今天,终於把房里一部分的东西清理、整理了。可是,还是有蛮多的东西我都不知该把他们放在那里。丢了又不舍得;放着又碍位子。唉呀唉呀,怎么办。才短短四个月,我的东西怎么那么多丫~真是头痛啊~

我要去旅行啊!!!!可是,护照还没办妥耶~唉呀~好想好想去旅行,看看外面的世界噢~

这趟旅行后,是时候定下心来,好好找工作了吧~只是,我到底要做些什么工? 前(钱)途茫茫~要在KL 呢,在我的老家,还是在其他地方??? 有太多的未知的东西,太多的不安。失去了方向感,那种感觉有点慌,有点乱~

乱乱的心情,就象我那乱乱的房间。。。。。
什么时候才可驱走那混乱的感觉,什么时候才可把乱乱的东西收拾好。

我的部落格写得也是乱乱的。不管啦~乱就乱。现在,没有心情去整理啦~我要旅行去!!!

The 2nd day of my long long holiday....It's been a boring day. Online....I dunno wat to do there. Sleep?? I cant possibly sleep 24hours a day....Go out?? NOpe...not a wise choice....it;s terribly HOT outside....SMS?? aiks~~expired + no CR de......sigh~~~~~~

I hav managed to arrange n keep part of my stuffs (well...u can call tat rubbish as well:P) BUt then, still hav another part tat r yet to be unpacked....OMG....I really dunno where to keep them. Dun wanna throw away, yet dun hav much place to accomodate them....hrmmmm...what should I do to them?

Trip trip Trip....I wanna go for TRIP......too bad, my passport still havnt done...pending issue......

After this trip, it's time for me to settle down n start to look for some jobs~ hehe~wat should I do? Im not sure...whether should I stay in KL, my hometown, or else where??? aiks~

A bit blur, a bit confused, a bit worry....
Even my blog is such a mess.....I dun care...n dun wanna care.......I only wan......wan to go for TRIP ar...

考试后遗症

考试是考完啦~可是,现在都等成绩的时候。考试压力;等成绩也压力,多悲哀啊~
现在,我们社会流行考试制度,样样都是比成绩。如果考得稍微不好,就会被其他人给比下去。固然对不起自己,也对不起师长。可是,有些时候,自己尽了力,成绩还是老样子,也无可奈何啦~所以,只要自己知道自己尽了全力,那就好啦~不要让自己有后悔的机会。

距离 = 问题? Distance = Problem?

朋友告诉我,距离本身不是问题。问题是在於两个人如何解决这个问题。有的人,不能妥善地处理而埋怨是距离的问题。其实,如果有心要完成一件事,再多的困难也不会阻止他。可是,若你不要做,那么任何事情都可以是你的借口。所以,人不是没有时间,而是看他怎么样安排时间。若一个人多次以没时间来拒绝你,那么你就应该聪明些,不要在纠缠了。因为,他不是真的没时间,而是他根本就不想和你见面。就算他有再多的时间,他也不会和你见面,因为你从来就不在他want-to-do list 里头。

有个朋友问我还敢再次谈个距离恋情吗? 哈哈~这个不是我想还是不想。而是,我到底能不能再次相信自己和对方。保险公司还有人寿保险,可是保险公司都没有个policy是卖爱情保险。是不是说爱情本身的风险太大,根本就是一门赔本生意丫? 可是,有哪段感情是没有风险的? 所以只要珍惜现在拥有的,将来的那时再谈啦~

人与人之间,很多时候是需要妥协。只要有那么一点的妥协,事情可以更圆满地解决吧~只要有合理的理由,我想事情是可以妥协的。为何为了那么一点小事而闹得不欢而散呢?两个人相处,一定有磨擦。只是,在乎两人怎么样解决这些磨擦和不快。
可以一拍两散,也可以圆满结束。

A friend told me...Distance itself isnt a big problem...the problem is how 2 ppl deal with this distance....She said, some ppl can stand with the distance problem and end up sad ending.....
It's the determination on how you want things to get done. If you are willing to put in effort n time, things can be different. When you relunctant to do sth, you will surely find excuses for not doing tat sth, right? So, it's not the matter whether you r free or not...coz if you r willing to spend time on tat particular things, then no matter how bz you r, you will still make it done.

Do I still dare to hav a long-distance relationship ?? Well, the answer depends on how much confident I hav with myself n the other party~Can I ever trust him? FOr an insurance company, there are policies on life....they insured your life...but then, there are nv an insurance company that insured relationship n love.....tat's bcoz it's far too risky than anything else....so, it's not a feasible policy....tat's y....to hav a relationship is always risky...but depends on persons to mitigate this risk...and how you would solve this risk problem..so that you can minimize it:P

Toleration and negotiation.....they are so common in our life....daily routine or in a relationship. Sometimes, you just need to bear with others and tolerate with others. YOu cant always stick it ur way....some changes need to be done in order to make things easier. Not to say you cant hav ur own principles...but sometimes, listen to others' advises and opinions will make things more perfect....

Tuesday, 30 May 2006

万分之一

有人说: 一朝被蛇咬,十年怕草绳。曾经,付出的得不到回报。如今,还能再付出多少? 可是,你不能一支竹竿打翻整船人嘛。不同的人,会有不同的做法。没有理由要他去承担别人所犯的错误。难道一辈子都要被之前的失败围绕着吗? 失败是成功之母吧。上一次的失败,把它当做是借镜,只要不再犯下同样的错误,那就好了。伤口只要一下就可以造成;可是,要让它痊愈就不是那么容易。曾在那里跌过,想必再次经过那儿时一定特别当心。可是,最终你还是要经过那里才能到达你的目的地。所以,逃避也不是办法。想办法面对和解决才是重点。

其实,大家都应该有自己的空间,不需天天见面,只要channel对,timing对,那么没有什么值得担心的。
无论他们的结局如何,只要有个美好的过程,就满意了吗? 有的人,无论你怎么和他说,都是像对牛弹琴的,完全不能沟通,这就是channel不对。有的则不用太多的语言,他就能明白你想要表达的,这就叫做心有灵犀吧。也有的在错的时间出现,只会徒增加遗憾。在对的时间有着对的人,那时多么难的事,机会就象买万字票那样,万分之一。你找到了你的万分之一吗?

Monday, 29 May 2006

to my dear friend, Jen...

haha.....my best friend said I din put a birthday wish on my blog....but, you know I hav always remember your birthday:) No matter what it takes, I will try to send my wishes to you. hhahaa~~~so, dun lar b jealous......haha~~~(jz kidding lar...i know you r dai fong dat tai 1....) hoho~~~~
Actually, you still owe me a birthday meal, right??hahaha~~~~~~
remember to treat me when you c me ya~~~muahahahaaha

Alive again.....

Wah....so long din online....NOw, it feels so good to hav internet again...wahaha~~~~
Finally, I have finished my final exams...and about the results, cant bother for the time being...hehe~just enjoy my time after exam..:)

Yesterday nite, went for movie....Over the Hedge. It's a cartoon...but it's very entertaining....laughed from beginning till the end....and now, till my throat also sore de...:P haha~ moral of the story? dun laugh so much (;)) but then, it's an enjoyable movie though it was short.
Finally, Im back home ....but then, so much things to unpack n arrange....damn....i just hate to unpack things.....troublesome-nya~~~~~~~~~i need some help...who wants to help me to arrange those things, i treat u for lunch..haha~

SOmetimes, ppl said once you are bitten by a snake, when you c a rope, you will feel scare as well.....but then, it's depended on how you see an issue. If you are confident enough tat it's not a snake instead of a harmless rope, you may not affraid of it. Well....Im still thinking whether it's a rope or otherwise. I need to hav a closer look b4 i know it's a rope or a snake. Am I a risk-adverse person or am I too affraid to be bitten again?
haha~no matter how.....there are always uncertainties in life. CAnt really expect everything and plan everything in advance.

Sunday, 21 May 2006

Happy Birthday, friend...

Happy birthday to this friend....haha~~~another year older lar....(opps......old is a very sensitive word to this kind of high-age ppl)..wahaha~~~ok lar...more mature n wiser lar:P
Wish him all the best & always so leng zai....
take care ya~~~~~~~~~

Friday, 19 May 2006

聪明的消费者

太多时候,人总是犹豫着该怎么办,前进后退?
犹豫得太多,失去了机会,才来后悔吗?
太多的犹豫,勇气溜走了,才来懊恼吗?

有很多时候,我们看到自己喜欢的东西。可是,又在犹豫到底要不要买回家。犹豫的当儿,你要的东西被他人买去了,你才来后悔莫及,有用吗? 所以嘛,看到自己喜欢的东西,别想那么多(前提是,你有足够的钱),买回家再算啦~

可是噢~买之前最好小心地检查清楚它是没有瑕疵的才好给钱噢~还有,确定售货员没有把你的东西和他人掉包,不然回到家里才发现就来不及,欲哭无泪啦~有的东西是有保用期。若在保用期间坏了,自然就能免费修理。可是,很不幸地,它就是在保用期后才坏,那么你要花钱将它修理修理。如果觉得不值得修理,那就把它给丢了,买个新的就好了呢? 有时,东西坏了,有裂痕了,无论你怎么修补,用万能胶也好,用再好的石膏也好,那裂痕永远都会在那里(至少你自己知道那里有道裂痕)。

有时,当你买心爱的东西回家时,你以为它会一直好好地伴在你身边。可是,意外总会发生,无法避免的。一不小心,你把它给弄坏了,怎么补救也救不了它。那时,你只能狠下心,把他送给垃圾桶,对它说拜拜~留着那坏了的东西,只会碍着地方,若不小心还会被它弄伤呢~旧的不去,新的不来,不是吗?

结论??? 就是,要做一名聪明的消费者啦~ 呵呵,在买东西前,最好货比三家,才好决定啦~ 不是叫你犹豫,是要你谨慎地想清楚,才好做出决定。不然,浪费时间,浪费钱嘛~

Da Vinci Code, again???

Yesterday nite...finally went to watch Da Vinci Code:P since it was the 1st day the show released, it's kinda full house. FOr me, I think the book itself is much better than the movie...the book for sure has a more detail descriptions and better way to bring out the whole story. However, the movie was still considered quite interesting, though some parts hav been eliminated in the show (time constraint n technical constraint???)
It's so nice to hav a movie after some exams:P In this coming June/July, few nice movies r coming to town...Hope to watch them after my hectic exams:)hehe~Once again, back to my lovely text books and nice-looking lecture notes....(damn...i jz LOVE them so much~)

Thursday, 18 May 2006

~you drive me crazy~

HAIHHHH......this time really gonna "long piak" lar....ah ying, I come to "long" with you.......which Piak you r using???
Really cham....and the only word can be used to describe is also CHAM.............What did I write in the exam hall is really craps....and rubbish (I supposed)....Why is it the Q looked like alien to me, and y am i so not clever enough to know them all? There are 2 campuses...so, different campus lecturer taught different things (well...similar in nature, just the content they taught are just different....) different tutorials questions we have, different lecture notes......why cant they reconcile the lecture notes and tutorials??? Why they asked us to reconcile the things in exam but not in their lecture notes and tutorial? It's really unfair~~~~
ARRrggggg.....so geram now....

Today, the tax Q seems like easy.....but actually, it's not....there were lots of traps (here n there) to trick the students(tat's me....) and guess what.....it's really a disaster......as I hav forgotten to include this n tat ...n the marks are deducted here n there......tat's the cost of being careless.....

Still got 2 more subjects to go....and, Im already half dead here.......really fee like vomit blood now...
aiks~~~~~~~~~~
Anyhow......tonite going to watch movie:) yeah yeah...haha......(this is wat I call.....dunno how to write the word DIE) ehehe~dun care....tonite relax a bit 1st......later only study the remaining subjects lar...im going nuts very soon if I dun get some entertainment..haha~~(bad excuses for not studying....;))

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